"We know that in one-parent families, a child is twice as likely to drop out of school, three times as likely to become pregnant as a teenager, six times more likely to be in poverty and 12 times more likely to be incarcerated." He cited a study that the change could cut the divorce rate by 23 percent.

That's a reasonable estimate. Maryland has the 8th lowest divorce rate (3.1 divorces a year per 1,000 people), largely because it requires a year of living apart before a divorce can be granted, and two years if the divorce is contested. By contrast, Vermont has the same six-month minimum as Louisiana, and a divorce rate of 3.9 per thousand.

Senator Bob Kostelka, a retired judge who led the fight for the law in Louisiana's Senate, recalled that divorces "were often granted before the couple had worked out issues of child custody and support. That removed the option of reconciliation, because they would be divorced before they had settled important issues," that might have prompted the couple to reconcile.

He adds that the change in the law, simply restores what had been the law requiring a year of separation - before No Fault Divorce made things easier. "The real people who suffer in a divorce are the minor children. This is a way to lead to more reconciliation and less divorce and more families staying together for the sake of the child," he affirmed.

John Crouch, Director of Americans for Divorce Reform in Arlington, VA and a divorce lawyer himself, was jubilant over the measure. "It is an immensely good sign that something like this would pass. Passing laws can change the way people think about divorce. No Fault did that in the other direction."

The stiffer law was championed by the Louisiana Family Forum, an affiliate of Focus on the Family, led by Judge Darrell White (ret.) who observed, "It is a miracle that this thing ended up passing. We had divorce bar opposition and domestic violence opposition. Some legislators asked, "If people are unhappy, why should they be forced to stay together?."

Judge White had answers. First, he cited a poll taken in Louisiana which found that 60 percent of Louisianans felt that "Divorce should be more difficult to get for couples with children than other couples." A TIME-CNN poll reported that 61 percent of a national sample agreed.

Second, he cited a 2001 study by the Louisiana Law Institute which urged the legislature to consider a number of reforms of No Fault, one of which was a longer cooling off period.

Third, he cited a study by Dr. Linda Waite which revealed that "86 percent of unhappily married people who stick it out, find that, five years later, their marriages are happier" Three- fifths who said their marriage was unhappy in the late '80s and who stayed married, said their marriage was either "very happy" or "happy" when re-interviewed in the early 1990s.

Thus, sociology backs up the vows taken by billions of couples over centuries, that it is wise to commit to one another "for better, for worse till death do us part." Every marriage goes through times which are "worse." But if couples honor their vows, most marriages get "better."

The Senate bill added an amendment that if one party has been physically or sexually abused, or if a court protection order is issued, the six-month separation period remains in place.

One problem is that Louisiana has not published divorce data for years. Although counties (called parishes) are required to report divorces, some refused to do so. Therefore, if the stronger law results in fewer divorces, no one will know since there is no data. Neither of the bill's sponsors knew this fact, and said they'd look into it.

Nevertheless, I predict many states will follow Louisiana's pioneering step of requiring a year's separation if children are involved. Some states like Alabama allow a divorce in 30 DAYS, and has one of America's highest divorce rates.

Shouldn't the law encourage marriage, rather than divorce?

END TXT Copyright 2006 Michael J. McManus

---Michael J.McManus is President of Marriage Savers and a Columnist writing on issues of "Ethics & Religion"